My partner's using embarrassing photo's of me caught in latex to blackmail me | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I CINCHED myself to a shelf with cable ties while dressed in full latex.

My partner caught me and now she’s blackmailing me.

We’ve been married five years and she’s always enjoyed a prank but she has a nasty side too.

I’m a man of 33 and she’s 31.

We have an adventurous sex life but she’s never wanted to get involved in BDSM. So I wanted to try a little on my own.

She went to a spa day three weeks ago so I had the house to myself.

I bought a full, tight, latex suit and when she left on her trip I tried it on.

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I tied myself up tightly but had scissors in my hand to free myself after I’d had my thrill. But disaster struck and I accidentally dropped them out of reach and got stuck.

My wife came home an hour later – her friend who went to the spa with her wasn’t well so she’d come home early.

I was mortified but she laughed at me and took some photographs on her phone.

I kept saying, “I need the loo. It’s not funny. Help me out of this.”

She’s threatening to send pictures to my family unless I agree to buy her a sports car.

I’m not sure if she’s serious but I’m scared.

DEIDRE SAYS:  Oh dear.

In a quiet moment tell her you are worried that she’d divulge something very private to somebody else and that’s unkind.

If she wants a sports car, this is something you should discuss together – blackmailing you isn’t the way to go about it (and it’s illegal).

Beg her to delete the photographs, and apologise if she was shocked by what she saw.

My support pack Standing Up For Yourself may help you to convince her that any photographs falling into the wrong hands could be detrimental to you both as well as affecting your marriage.

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